Malawian man deliberately infects girlfriend with HIV

Dec 12, 2016 Top News 316
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A woman has accused her boyfriend Khumbo JD Khwazi of deliberately infecting her with the deadly HIV virus.

In a Facebook post that has been widely shared on social media, the woman said Khwazi lied to her that he was HIV negative but five months after the two started having sex, she tested HIV positive.

“Just 5 Months ago I was negative until I met Khumbo JD Khwazi who at the point of meeting I urged him to go for HIV test, unfortunately due to some circumstances we didn’t go together. We tested separately of which both our results came out negative,” she wrote.

According to the victim, Khwazi’s behaviour changed after the two had unprotected sex as he began cheating on her with several women including his ex-girlfriend with whom he has a child and a married woman.

HIV Test MalawiAfter the victim confronted him about the other women, Khwazi admitted sleeping with them without using a condom and this led to a breakup.

“[The breakup] triggered in me the idea of going back to test for HIV and shockingly I tested positive because of his promiscuous behaviour,” she wrote.

The victim says she is now feeling frustrated and angry for what the man did to her but she claimed that she will soon start taking antiretroviral (ARVs) drugs and will be living positively.

Meanwhile, she has warned other women against having unprotected sex with Khwazi as he will infect them with the deadly virus.

Sympathising with the girl, many well-wishers on the post that has been shared by more than 100 people advised her to bring up criminal charges against the man. As we published the story, the man was yet to comment on the accusations.

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316 Comments

  1. Indeed they z no disease our God can not heal, but hear we talking girlfriend & boyfriend here.which means these guys were making sins deliberately.

  3. Paul anandiuza kut ochita chigololo achimwira thupi la iye mwini. Kuchita kusamvera nkuzipha m’bale apa vomerani mwazichimwira. mukumana ndi zosatira za chimo lanu

  6. Pomwe ankafika pa climax kuchipinda ife kunalibe ndiye poti zavuta mutiwuze mayazi munamva kukoma landirani matendawo ndi manja 4

  13. pali nkhanitu apa, my advise to young girls out there lets avoid sex b4 marriage tikamayenda ndichinyamata girls tidzalira. let’s abstain kuti best gift yomwe tidzawapatse awa husbands should be our virginity. God allows sex in marriage nt in relationships.

  19. As far as I know mkazi wamzeru kapena mwamuna wamzeru these day ayenera kukayezetsa magazi b4 having sex to avoid pointing fingers to each other how dd u realise kuti ndi iye wakupatsa HIV as if munayezetsapo magazi?.Zinkakoma kudya ndalama lero zamuthera u hv started complaining kuti akupatsani Edzi what a stupid girl go to hell pita uzikamwa ma ARVS amayenera anthu opupuluma ndi nyere ngati inu fuck

  23. Masiku ano ndizovuta kumukhulupilira munthu pamaso. Mumangoyenera kukayezetsa ndi kudziwa mmene aliyense alili. Poti zachitika kale osadandaula landilani yesu nkumapemphera mu choonadi. Mulungu wathu ndiwakutha azakuchilitsa ku nthendayo

  24. Research has proved that moSt people die from other causes and nowadays its a few pple who die due to hivm so he/she may have hiv today and live longer and you may be healthy and die tomorrow on an accident! but all I can say is we all die

  35. what if the man tests negative now? Faith fool! and how can people trust you? and not that you simply want spoil his behavior just because he dumped you? just except you are a victim of love and description if at all its true….

  38. No love without sex among youths nowadays so if you accepted sex before marriage don’t blame your boyfriend its your fault. …ndiwe chitsiru

  39. Mtamuuza mkaziyo kuti watofoira game ili yake. Bwanji osakayezesa asanagonane bwa. Anangokumana okhaokha a kachilombo ameneo asaononge mbiri ya nzake.

  52. Dont lie to ppl u garls nowadays u are afraid of being pregnant not hiv aids.wy dont she use condoms before hospital,wanyanawo.

  53. Yambani katundu uja basi otherwise anakumangilirani pokugonani inuyo musaname kuti anakunamizani mwinaso inu ndamene mwampatsa mzanuyo bwanji simunaka yezetse limodzi kuchipatala musanaganize zokwerana?

  59. Iwe umakhulupilira kuti alibe matenda musanakayezetse pano wamudyera ndalama zake zatha ndimmene umakayezetsa. Kuseri kwa ndalama zo iyo ndiyo mphotho.

  66. Nkhaniyitu ikupitilira, munthu anapitanso koyezetsa kachikena amuuza kuti alibe matenda, poyamba paja inali mistake anamuonetsa magazi a wina, nde poti anali atalemba kale post ya Aids yo pano akupepesa kwa mwamunayo pomuyalutsa, nde I think mmalo momupempherera kaya kumunyoza timuthandizire kupepesa coz analakwitsadi. #howiwishitwasamovie

  69. She is a fool. She should have taken precaution. If she had sex without HIV Status confirmation, she can’t start blaming someone of the infection. She is reaping what she sowed. Just accept it and start living positively. There is still life after HIV infection

  71. zomwe zikupweteka ndi zoti wabwelelana ndi girl friend wake wakare, thats final …we knw you girls mukamathesa zibwezi za anzanu mumaona ngati sazakambilana..peza wako..

  75. Despite all comments commented here let me say its posibo testing HIV negative today and results change after 5 month it happens for sure. But am not saying kuti sanampatsile noo coz i dont evidence yomwe mkaziyu anapeza kuti adziwe kuti the guy is HIV positive. My advice to others, lets knw HIV status first urs n ur partner it helps and lets fear God we shuld not spread the virus mwadala

  78. I dont see why yall are being sympathetic about if she was raped that was another case but she willy nilly took the risk n slept with him without protection and now the consequences have surfaced either being infected or pregnancy nde now crying boo hoo for what thats total bullcrap in the past generations our parents we would excuse them kuti aids was new they dint know blah blah but our generation HahahahHa what excuse would u have so i say she made a choice n she should leave with it i rest my case

  79. chigoloro ndi mwini thako. unalora wekha kt alowetse nanga lero chotikhudza ndi chaaa? limba m’tima uyu ndi m’liri bcoz chikhala ali matenda bwezi atapezeka mankhwala .

  83. INe ndine mulungu ndipagila anthu chifundo oyenela kuwa Pagila chifundo pakuti mabuku anga ose ndinasindikiza kuti mamuna kapena mkadzi akuyenela kukhala ndi mamuna mmozi kapena mkadzi mmozi choncho pakuti mulungu ndiwa chifundo ndikulonjeza kuti machimo anu akhulukidwa muzina la yesu christu Amen

  90. She Should First Pray To God For Forgiveness 4 Sin Of Fornication. Secondly Accept Her HIV + STATUS & FOLLOW THE STRINGS ATTACHED, TO KEEP HER IMMUNITY STRONG. Realise That It Will Be A Lesson To Others – Meaning She Will Save Some Souls.As It Is Said Ukaona Nzako Wagwa Apa Iwe Podutsa Umalambalala Mbali.

  92. I strongly believe tht if im sure i am negative there is no way i can allow myself to risk my life tht way no matter wht. It only whn u r not sure plus ignorant that u cn take a risk. Or if i knw i am negative maybe then i cn enjoy it tht way. Or unless i hv to be raped then tht is somthing els. Otherwise those who r negative plz stay safe all da tym aids kills. And those who r already postive enjoy sex responsibly and alwaz hv it protected. Money is nothing and cn never buy u life.

  94. What i know is, with God HIV is nothi. there is no disease our God can not heal. All she needs to do is to give her life to God and God will forgive her sins and heal her, for he is Jehovah rapha.

  95. Unless she ws raped then the woman cn acuse her boyfrend for infecting her. She shud think twice b4 agreeing for un ptrotected sex especially tht they both didnt go for test together. And how sure is it tht this man is da one who infected. Did she got teste b4 sex wth ths man? Wht if she had it already? I think stories like these ones shud be carefully delt. U cn not allow to hv un protected sex if u really know tht u are negative.

  97. exposing him can not yield anything. Life goes on. stop pointing finger on him coz you also took part inthe act and you had a chance to say no. Get a life

  105. Hahaha makawa Koma anaimba amuna ena ndidzigawenga amayi kumafunsa komwe kwachoka brad osangoti yapola tidye lelo ndizi sanfunsa anadya phula

  107. Usaope sista,wakufa sadziwika,masiku ano imfa ikutenga aliyense wa edzi ndi opanda edzi yemwe,mwinanso amene akukunenawa akhoza kuyamba kufa ndi iwowo iwe kukusiya uli moyo,palibe munthu amadziwa tsiku lakufa,uzingopemphera basi,nthawi zina mulungu amapanga zinthu ndi cholinga!

  109. So Wat???? kumene ankavulanako.ine kunalibeko.akangoyamba ma.arv basitu,, vuto lomagwidwa ndma celebo atsikana kmalawi

  116. sster!!!! worry ov wt???? Othes they infected b4 u born till now they still alive ,, so worry ov wt? Jst kneel dwn and pray our merceful is the heler ….AMEN!!!!!!

  117. It’s not end of life after all u can live long life just follow healthy lifestyle and she can live long life,it not too late just live in faith and believe yourself

  124. Mmmm sibooo koma kumpasa matenda mku dumper nso,okumva wamva osamva akhale,bola iwe waulula,pamene ena akupitiliza Ku pulula miyoyo

  129. Pepani aunt,yambanipo kusatila malangizo okhuzana ndi nkhani izi,anthu ena owakonda ndi oyipa amangofuna kusiya amzawo mmavuto,mtima woipa basi ndikuphatu kumeneku.

  134. Kodi kunasalanso kuopa matenda amenewa? Mayi musadandaule,, wakupasaniyo sanachite kuwagula Ku shop,,naye anatopasidwa,,,,inunso pasani ena omwe alibe

  135. Ndichifukwa chake ine ndimati ma ARV athe kuti wa AIDS azichita kuonekera patali tsitsi litatsalamo 17 m’mutu koma sim’mava, nanga choncho ndizabwino zimenezi?

  137. dont only take words of am negative from ur partners only blood test will give u garantee.so mukagonana wthout protection yet u uddnt go fr blood test do it at ur own risk!#ndadutsaine

  147. CHITSILU NDI NKAZIYO, IYEYO NDI MWANA KUT NYAMATA ANGANGOMUUZA PAKAMWA KUT “IAM HIV NEGATIVE”? ATSIKANA ENA ATENGELEPO PHUNZIRO, VUTO LOYENDAYENDA NDI CHONCHO BAS, KUKOLOLA ZOMWE WA LIMA.

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  152. Ndiye zatikhuza pati zimenezi when u were eating his money did u tell anyone, when he was buying u all sorts of things zomwe zinakupangitsa kutsegula miyendo yo unakumbukila kuti uzafuna ma sympathizer, tiye uko deal with it. Tangoyambani mankhwala wo musatilemere apa

    8. The only group that deserves our sympathy ndi ana omwe amabadwa nayo hiv chifukwa cha makolo fe, koma zina zoziyamba dala ngati izi sizikuyenera kumazisekelera. Kufika zaka zino palibe amene ali 18 and above angamanene kuti hiv sakuidziwa ndipo kafalidwe kake sakudziwa and njira zomwe zilipo zomwe tingatsate kuti tisakumane ndi mlili wu sakuzidziwa. A boma ndi ama bungwe ali pa kalikiliki ophunzitsa za hiv.

    11. Honestly makolo zandikhuza kwambiri chifukwa out of a million plus omwe ali hiv positive mdziko muno she is here standing tall saying such such a person infected me with hiv and yet she was the one who practiced unprotected sex ndi munthu oti sakuzidziwa bwino bwino and aliyense wakayezetsa kwa yekha uko ndikumakhulupilira zonena za pakamwa za munthu. Seriously mu 21st century muno munthu angamakuuze kuti ali hiv- and iwe nkumalolera kugonana naye osaziteteza chifukwa choti wanena kuti he/she is hiv-. Pena pake makolo tikhale serious ndi moyo wathu. Moyo ndi mpamba uwu

    13. You don’t know anything about AIDS my dear, not all people who have AIDS were reckless in life. This girl trusted her boyfriend who betrayed her, but you cannot say it’s entirely her fault because she trusted the guy which turned out to be a very bad decision. All am saying we cannot judge our fellow human beings because they have the virus it could be you or your loved ones.

    14. Nowadays with this hiv thing the word trust does not exist my dear, inetu am against that blame game. Ndipo I know much about hiv than u Juma Matiki. Zibwana zomati sindimadziwa and yet that man sakumudziwa mmene wayendera before mpaka mmene mwakumanapo sukudziwa and u r there with your trust, no my dear tiyeni timvetsere ziphunzitso zomwe zikuphunzitsidwa mmawailesi ndi mwina momwe akuphunzitsa ziphunzitsozi.

    17. Do you know even your husband or boyfriend can infect you although you you have gone for testing together in the past? You have a good message about HIV prevention but you seem to be very close minded on how AIDS is spread. Am against the notion that all those who get AIDS are people who don’t care about their lives.

    18. And for info Juma Matiki the boyfriend did not betray her she betrayed herself pomusiya boyfriend yo kuti akayezetse kwa yekha iyenso kwayekha ndikuyamba kugonana before kukhala sure kuti zomwe akumuuzazo ndi zoona kapena ayi. Mmesa koyezetsa timayenera kupita tonse before kugonana.

    20. Ndizotheka JumaMatiki zimenezo ndipo zikuchitika koma that does not mean ndibwera pa gulu ngati pano mkumadzadandaula kuti my husband has infected me with hiv, ndikungoyenera ndivomeleze and ndiyambe moyo wina basi.

    21. juma Tamuvetse Emma. So words r sounding so strong but its true. Zaka zino sungakhulupirire munthu ndi mawu apakamwa zero. HIV services zili palipose. If the victim is cauragious enough would not indulge herself in the practice Zadala izi. ziyesetsani ndi chibwezi chanu b4 kugonana.

    23. Yeah if she is trying to warn other girls who are in danger of getting the virus from their boyfriends, she has every right to come forward with her story.

    24. For ur info the act involves two pple. 1: the victim herself who I think was ready 4 anything and 2 winayo nde mukuti walakwa ndani. the victim was in a good position than the man to say a big NO b4 testing

    25. Koma ukaionetsetsa post yo sakuchita warn munthu koma tarnishing somebody’s image coz ndimakhulupilira kuti ukafuna kumasuka about hiv uzimasuka wekha and not blaming somebody kuti am in this situation because my boyfriend /husband / wife betrayed me

    26. Kinnah Makupe, am getting her point but I wish she could acknowledge that some people are innocent and not everybody deserves it as she put it in her above comments.

    30. Just remember we have had all these measures against malaria and people are still getting sick of malaria, should we blame all of them that they are reckless?

  155. Why did she trust e person to that level ….was suppose to have tests before indulge in it ….Xem sis non reverse ..take medication ..full stop.

  161. That crazy moment when you put a porn DVD in the DVD player at home, Then power goes… and you have to carry the DVD with you like a laptop the whole day…

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  167. Chimo pamwamba pa chimo ambiri tikadziwa kuti taonongeka tikumayesetsa kuti tionongenso anzathu mamuna uyu ndioipa ntima adaonetsa chikondi chozama koma akudziwa kuti patsogolo adzamuthawa nkaziu. Tichenjere ndi manyengerero asatana .

  170. what made her NOT insist on going for HIV tests together for verification.Do we accept word of mouth where HIV is concerned? NOOO!

  173. It’s not too late for my sister. She must give her life to jesus. God will heal her. Our God is our healer. What is hiv to God. God heals any affliction

    1. Dont use the word of God to comfort people when they have been punished by their own actions, sin has consequences, she has to take full responsibility of her action.

    5. iam not jugding sis, iam a sinner, I have sinned, God does forgive us all, but he desciplines us, we reap what we have sown, every sin has a consequency, here’s a scenerio, a thief steals, he goes to jail, if he repents hes forgiven, right? but he still gonna serve his term not so?

    23. kkkkkkkkk hahahaha!! #TryTiza wen dd u receive Jesus? or may be u also has got Hiv aids nde ukumulimbitsa ntima nzakoyo? Hiv ilibe kuti am always holding the bible ngati ndinu okonda kusegula zip paliponse imapalana nanu ubwenzi pompo kkkkkkkkkk and become a gud frnd till mmanda

    25. A stand you can say more I don’t care what is bigger is the one who lives in me. If you are not sinner keep it righteousness. But mind ur word . My prayers to u return to jesus. Amen.

    3. Eti ndani angavomere kuti ali ndi matenda pamaso pamkazi pano akukayezetsa after kumudyela ndalama zake mkunachita regret too late

    5. Uyu zake anadyera2, its payback time, paja mumati mamuna ndi mu pocket eeeti!! hahahahaaaa!! koma ndiye uziwona kenaka kuzazigwira;

  180. ….. shut up idiot.. !!, how can you open legs and have unprotected sex before blood tests…? .. i said shut up and wait for ARVs while waiting for body soul separation……..

    3. I know this guy and all of the galz akucometawo ndiwoti amamufuna or anawasiya nde kuwawidwa ntima kumeneko sichina ayi, iwe siungadabwe kodi

    5. Y shud u think asikana akumufuna.. Whats special about him. Ngati zili ndalama ukuona ngati atsikana onse aku commenta apa alibe dollar.

  188. mmm asamunamizile,onse anali odwala kale,Edzi imatenga nyhawitu kuti ikaoneke nde miyez 5 awoneka kalekale?magazi awo ndigulu chani?onse ndiodwala angokumanapo.kuphana basi

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