Pregnant teen kills herself after getting dumped

Aug 14, 2016 Top News 126
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A 16 year-old girl in Machinga district has committed suicide after the man responsible for her pregnancy left her for another girl.

Machinga police have confirmed of the death and identified the deceased as Alinafe Chiwanga.

Machinga police public relations officer Davie Sulumba told our reporter on Friday that the deceased was two months pregnant and a man known in the area as Alabi was responsible for the pregnancy.

“It was believed that the boy denied the responsibility of the pregnancy,” Sulumba said.

Death hangingAccording to Sulumba, on Thursday Alinafe saw the boyfriend with another girl and this hurt her such that she went home and hanged herself in her room.

During the evening, Alinafe’s grandmother Linly Harrison called for her and when the girl did not respond the woman went to her (Alinafe’s) room where she found the girl hanging from the roof. Harrison also found a suicide note in the room.

Postmortem conducted at Chamba Health Centre revealed that the death of Alinafe was due to suffocation.

Meanwhile Sulumba has advised Malawians to seek help when they face challenges

“We would like to advise the general public that if they have any misunderstanding they should consult the police who can help them effectively and in a professional manner rather than rushing to make horrible decisions,” Sulumba advised.

Alinafe Chiwanga hailed from Mbando village in the area of Traditional Authority Mposa of Machinga District.

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126 Comments

  1. As young as she was, anaganiza bwanji mwana ameneyu. Anyamata let us be serious when we are in relationship.

  2. No human being makes good decisions when deep down in their hearts are confused,but it could hv been better if she took some time in order to calm. her self down,

  11. these situations are common nowadayz…something needs to be done anyamata ambiri masiku ano akumangodziwa kupeleka mimba and they move on to the next person….no sense of responsibility is killing us atsikananso before you give in to someone and give them your precious jewel please muzikhala mutamuona munthu kuti akuthandizani kapena ayi….osangolola coz of ma characters opoila

  12. N hw old iz d guy? 4 petes sake d gal wz only 16, Iz ds even d legal age 4 marrieg? a Polisi msakeni galu ameneu i thnk ndiwa chikulire ndthu bambo ameneyu

  13. N hw old iz d guy? 4 petes sake d gal wz only 16, Iz ds even d legal age 4 marrieg? a Polisi msakeni galu ameneu i thnk ndiwa chikulire ndthu bambo ameneyu

  18. COMMITNG SUCIDE Z NT ASOLUTION BT Z ADDTION OF GRT PRBLMS & PUNISHMENTS IN ASPIRITUAL REALM FROM GOD: ALESSON 2 D OTHER TEENS WHO JUST OPEN UP 2 ANY MAN, U WL B A NEX ONE. PLZ TEK KARE OF URSELF,LEST IN PC YOUNG GAL.

  22. let’s not be quick to pass on judgement to others. We all make decisions out of confused state of mind. No one is perfect. Rest in Peace you innocent soul

  27. The boy friend should be sued he threw in the baby into this poor girl and run a way he should deserve all her sins and carry them.Thas happening with lots of dumb boys caling themsevs ndife mayo.they drnk smoke and have dozens of girls while they are cowards.the boy deservs a million butt whips

    2. remember that girl carried the boy’s blood in her womb… and she loved that boy from the bottom of her heart that’s why she took her life … not easy my bro.

  31. Mkazi ameneyo ndiopusa kwambili !!azake akukwela ma pili kusala kudya ndi zina zambili kut mwna angapeze mwaw wokhala ndi preg, nde iye paka kuzikhweza hahahaha zoputsa !!

  34. Atsikana mumatailila ma pren anyamata omwe muma wa patsa pren opandatsogolo so ngati awo ndekaya muma ona ngati angaku samaleni anyamatawa akama kufusilani ku mawa fusa kaye osati aziku namizani nanga choncho sidilu nde pren ndiya ukape ukango lawa kuti mawa abwele ndi prastic umakana kuiwala kuti zomwe ukupangazo chikho chiku bwela nde ukango patsidwa ngati unali pa ntchito ima ima ngati unali pa xool ima ima nde inu atsikana mukakhala pagulu mumana mizana moti muziuzana zanzelu ayi masiku ano muka muona mtsikana mzanu alibe mwana mumamu nena subeleka iwe unagwa mukalot swaga yanu iku makhala yoti pamene muzimaliza xool mulindi ana five kuma ona kaye mamuna ngati aku machita kupepha soup kwa makolo ake nde yokuthandizila iwe ichoka kuti

  35. I see sad stupid comments of “clever” Malawians who think that poor girl as a stupid and a sinner. Shame! Some clever Malawians who are quick to comment and judge yet they know nothing how different individuals respond to difficult situations. We all need some counselling when we are so confused beyond our reasoning

  39. Iwe? Iwe? Mtsikana Iwe Nzeru Ulibe Ngakhale Watofa Kale,kuzipha Ndi Mimba Zoona,anthu Mu Mabanja Amachita Kugona Ndi Misuko Pansi Pa Ma Bedi Kufuna Mwana,nde Iwe Ukaziphe Coz Of Mimba.?Omg

  45. ine ndikuona ngati msikana ameneyo sanapitekodi ku xul ndipo makolo sanamuuzeponso za second chance,azimai ambiri masiku ano samamaliza xul opanda mwana, akabeleka amapitanso kuxul nde iye watani kuchotsa moyo wake, ine zamwana wankatimo zandiwawa poti samaziwa chilichonse

    2. Tchimo lalikulu wamulakwira mwana amene adakabadwayo, coz ine imfa ya tiana tating’ono imandimvetsa chisoni, ndipo moyo umandipweteka ndikamamva zimenezi

  61. Each passing day NGO are civic educating us on the importance of family planning methods but see the outcome of their good will

  63. Vas was better for her to be free.rest in peace ena amafuna kudzipha zimawakanika iyi idalinjira yake yomwe idakonzedwa

  65. Vuto losalowa class ndilimenero cz ngati mimbadi inali yamamunayo anali ndi ufulu kuyitengera khani yake kumabungwe anakatha kuthandizidwaa

    4. Ayi tisatero chifukwa kuweruza ndi kwa mwini Yehova Mulungu. Mtsikanayu akupumula chabe ndipo akuyembekezera tsiku limene adzaukitsidwe ndi kuweruzidwa mogwirizana ndi zimene anali kuchita ali moyo. Werengani buku la Yohane chapter 5 verse 28 ndi 29

  70. sometymz we men we r lyk goats, hw cud we aford to plant the tree & rejecr its fruits? shameon us.and u young girlz, hw cud u allow diz monkeys to destroy your pride with cheap price? remember there no shortcut in diz wrld that means there is no sex before marriage.dnt rush, be humble vry soon the gold neckless wll b yors.

  71. sometymz we men we r lyk goats, hw cud we aford to plant the tree & rejecr its fruits? shameon us.and u young girlz, hw cud u allow diz monkeys to destroy your pride with cheap price? remember there no shortcut in diz wrld that means there is no sex before marriage.dnt rush, be humble vry soon the gold neckless wll b yors.

  73. She was not counselled, I age parents to well advice their young ones when they are in this problem rather than taking a tough stand against them because they lose hope

    1. Ur very right. With proper counselling and the parents / guardians showing love and understanding, such losses could be avoided

  74. At such a younger age she couldnt figure out what life real means and the expected inevitable hindrances to meet so that she could have concrete decisions and reasonable ones too ,Ladies be strongminded and live with greatminds to avoid cases like these!

  89. The gal is vry stupid is she the first gal on this earth to be dumped.wangochotsa moyo wake ndi wa mwana wake pazinthu za zii

    1. They are not stupid sometimes the problem comes from our parents kuti how dd they handle the matter.Makolo ena sadziwa kulankhula zikafika munyengo ngati imeneyi inuyo nyengo yamimba mumaidziwa sibwino kumuyankhula motupa mwana akakhala munyengo u just need to treat her nicely akachira then u advice her it may happened makolo sadamuyankhule bwino mwamunayo atamukana.So palibe ochenjera pa imfa

    2. She was not stupid. She lacked counselling. U don’t know nothing about how different human beings respond to awkward difficult situations. Mind u she was only 16, so young for mature reasoning

    5. #Esther Chipao, emotional and psychological confusion is more harmful than physical pain. Everyone would love to live longer, have u ever for one moment thought the state of mind one is before committing suicide? That’s why there’s counselling out there to deal with troubled minds. And family members should be there for family members, freinds should be there for freinds and a society should be there for a troubled individuals. Only if we were less selfish and more available for others, such losses of life could be avoided. I strongly disagree with ur judging of that poor soul

    1. In our days never a girl can not reach even 14 yrs as a virgin bt all I can says z that they hv to be carefull in cases like this u know wat I mean

    3. True that my cc but the main problem is poverty had it been that our government is serious to help young girls at least zikadakhalabwino but this time most girls are coming from poor families so if men cheat them with money amangovomera they hv no choice.The only thing government knows is to arrest than kukonza komwe kukuchokera vuto.

    2. but to be honest, nowadays most teenagers knows it all when it comes to sex but it’s just that this generation has reached a point of just fearing HIV/AIDS only….. but i agree with your point

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