Man commits suicide after finding his wife sleeping with her dad

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A man in Machinga district has hanged himself to death after learning that his wife was having sex with her step-father, the man’s father in-law.

The man, Rajab Black, committed suicide by hanging himself from a mango tree after getting disillusioned by reports that his wife was sleeping with his father in-law.

According to Machinga Police Public Relations Officer Davie Sulumba, the deceased married a stepdaughter of Mr Mbosongwe and later on he began to hear reports that his father in-law was going out with his wife.

“This confused the deceased and on 17th July, 2016 he went missing. His body was later on found hanging from a tree but in a decomposed state,” Sulumba said.

He added that Black left a suicide note in which he urged his father in-law to continue his relationship with the woman.

A medical report revealed that the death was caused due to strangulation.

Death hangingMeanwhile, Police in Machinga are advising the members of the community to report misunderstandings to police victim support unit rather than killing themselves.

Black hailed from Nkhuna village, Traditional Authority Liwonde in Machinga district.

In a related development, a man identified as James Butao has committed suicide by hanging in Nkhotakota district.

Nkhotakota Police Station Public Relations Officer Sub Inspector Williams Kaponda said the incident happened during the night of 20-21 July at Phamphala village, Traditional Authority Mwadzama in the district.

Kaponda said on Thursday morning the deceased’s body was found inside the house hanging from a beam in one of the bedrooms.

He added that relatives of the man found urine around the place of hanging and a rubber (mphira) tied to the beam on one end and around the deceased’s neck on the other end.

“There were also blue marks around the neck with no fracture cut or any abnormity of the whole body as per medical officer who examined the corpse,” Kaponda added.

In the man’s pockets, the police found two boxes of matches, K600 and chingambwe.

Butao hailed from Phamphala village, Traditional Authority Mwadzama in Nkhotakota district.

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  1. nice!!!!just take those self hanged deaths and include in #1000waystodie Malawi can be well known…….if u dnt know timadziphatu ife oho

  2. Reading through the article, the man only heard that there was something going on between his wife and her step father. So, he did not commit suicide because he found them in the act as per headline of the story.

  3. to me its a wrong decision to die due to family issues even anything else moyo sabwereza bible says mkazi wopusa amamasula banja lake ndimanja ake how special is she mpaka kutaya moyo akadafunss analipo akazi amene ankawafuna bamboyu koma amalephera kulankhula chifukwa anali ndi mkazi.wrong ciganizo

  4. hmmmm aaa shame to this poor man,bt he wasn’t supose 2kill himself lot of woman are wetn 4men outside there,wat is he goin to tel God wen answered him y dd u come here widout my permission? u so stupid 4 comitng suside on urself

  5. i have come to realize that 9/10 ppo who kill themselves coz of love issues in mdubz are men. does this mean mdubz men r weaker? or they love much? seriously hey? many men are doubling their wives doing nasty tings with house maids…but none of the women kills themselves..

    • U know what women we ar so strong n Quick to forgive Am in a situation that my husband is accusing me sins which I didn’t do them,but in other way round he is the one cheating I got twin wit him a boy n a gal 4 month old cute babies but he is saying those kids ar not his coz a prophetess told him so now we are on process of DNA test we are separated he bated me up Two weeks ago for sins I know nothing Am a laughing stalk to pple who believe him, but some pple they don’t believe him they do encourage me to keep on going n holding on my faith coz Am also a believer if I could be another one I could hung up too but one thing I know my God neither sleeep nor slumber he is always there for me……………………. I only pray for my husband coz I love him so much thou he can’t see that bottom line is that women we ar strong thus why we don’t hung ourselves like that we always take our pains to God in prayer.

  6. Mkazi wanga kuka gona ndi Banbo ake, ndimva mbwanji? Yehova tikhululukileni dziko lapansi yafika po yabwa. I’ve remembered Mlaka Maliro’s musalile song, we’re leaving in the very last days! Matthew 24 is now working.

  7. Achawa……to them turning down a mans’ is a sin.They don’t even bother putting on pants,they say it’s a time wastage,ha!! What un mannered tribe????

  8. No matter how angelic she was,he was not supposed to die like that.Jesus is to punish this crazy homosapien for this stupidity he has done.Many pple are craving for life in hospitals now.

  9. No matter how angelic she was,he was not supposed to die like that.Jesus is to punish this crazy homosapien for this stupidity he has done.Many pple are craving for life in hospitals now.

  10. Koma kumachinga ine ndimadabwatu abambowa kumukonda mwana wawoyu chonchi eee taonani mwaphetsa mwana wanuwake naweso ndan adakuuza kut kuchindana ndi abambo kokoma wanzunzitsa ana koma abambo sing’anga adakupusitsani kulemelayotu adakunyengani kudya galu osaphika taonani mwapengatu

  11. U man why punnishing ur innocent life condemning it to death? Or else u have serve IHL on bhaf of ur wife & ur step father? What r the use of chiefs & courts? As my fellow fb users hav stated that his wife was not final, there r many more women arround the world hungry of men to marry with, I agree with u. Inu mayi ngati pali umboni woti munapangadi chigololo ndi apongozi anu, ndiwauza apolisi kuti akumangeni nonse mukayankhe mlandu wa incest ku khoti/kugonana pachibale. NKHAMANGA YIKALI.

  12. There is a surplus of two milion of women to every hundred thousand men who are eligible to marry or get marriade. So why killing yourself over an issue of an adulterous woman yet you can still marry other five women at once after divorcing the first woman?The truth is that there are alot of women who are crying looking for a man who can marry them but there are few men who are committed to take such a lifetime sacrament.The reason why some good population of women indulge themselves in commercial sex is that they have no committed man to marry them and take care of them and gain respect of a marriade woman in society.So with this regard,there is no need for someone to kill himself over a woman who can be replaced by five other women at once as soon as she walks away.

  13. Opepela ameneyo iye osangowasiya ndkupeza wina bwanji, akazi onsewa akuyenda matako ali piku piku kusakasaka amuna samawaona?

  14. hnmmm….osangotsanzika bwanji? mpaka kuzipha iwe komwe uliko ndiwe mbuzi yamuthu ukanakhala pamtendere ukanangoti zikomo kusasa fumbi mkunyamukapo.

  15. step father machende ako!m`kazi iwe nanyongo wako!zoona kuchindana ndi m`dala wako amuna awo amayi ako? zakhala bwino muchindane mopanda mantha agaru inu!Manyadzi bwanji?

  16. Amayi inu vuto linali chani mpaka kugonana ndi apongizi ako? Izi ndinakumanapo nazo koma osati Bambo anga ayi koma mwana wa achimwene anga anyumba ine.Guys zimapweteka mundimve ndipo zimafunika kulimba mtima. Ukaona dzotelizi mtima wako ugwile vomereza zachitika .Nkhani ngati idzi decission imakhala yo dziwikilatu nkumusiya osati kuchotsa moyo nchibwana .Am writing froom experience Guys take it Nanga ukadzipha ana ako adzalele ndani? Mayi mtendere mbambadi simudzauna pa moyo wanu chifukwa mwapanga malaulo .Mayi inu Bambo inu mutembeledwe ndithu. Mandikumbutsa zoti ndinaiwala Bambo inu kulimba mtima kwanji? A

  17. I swear…nditakhala mbale wake wauyu wadzimangayu …mkaziyo pangatalike bwanji NDIKHOZA KUMDULA MUTU PAMODZI NDI TATE WAKEYO….MXIIEW !!

  18. Mnyamata ameneyi walakwitsa kuchosa moyo wake ndithu.Akanadziwa kuti muno Malawi ngati kuli Boma imodzi imakonda kupanga nkhani onga zimenezi ndiyo Machingayo.Azibambo amakonda kunyenga akazi achina ana awo.Ndiye achisilamu amenewo akuti kuchikonda kwambiri chgororo zopusa kwambiri

  19. Lets comment with Empathy and not sympathy so that we can understand how he feels.. Ambirinu akazi amene munakwatira kapena muli nawo pa chibwenzi, enanso mwangokwatitsa kumene, ena mukwatitsa very soon achitapo izi ndi bambo awo koma kuti simudziwa thus why u are commenting like this… Reaction differs same as the way God differenciated out faces. Imagine urself in this position.. Ngati sumamufuna mkaziyo ndipo kuti umasowa pomusiyira u will clap hands and fulfil ur desire…. However if u are in deep love, investing ur love in ur partiner Itell u, Bolanso uyu wadzipha yekha enanu ndithu mpaka mutakafera kundende chifukwa chokupha munthu coz of nsanje ndi kuwawidwa mtima……. Its painful especially considering that he is her father and for how long has this been going on or shall stop….. RIP

  20. Anaiwala kt moyo umene akuuchosawo siwake ndi wa Mulungu, koma zinamuphwekera kuuchosa, pamene kuubwezera sangakwanitse! Anthu oterewa ali ndi mlandu wa mwadzi pamaso pa Yehova, yemwe ndi mwini moyo.

  21. Anthu ozipha akuchuluka tsopano vuto ndi alaliki amasiku ano akungoti moyo wabwino uli kumwamba koma osawauza momwe angaupezere moyo wakumwambawo..

  22. To anyone planing to do the same(hanging yourself because of a so called cheating angel),I have an advice for you;’don’t be stupid,shallow thinking and an upside down thinker! Look now, that woman will still be enjoying the parcel from her so called dad while you are six feet down. I think we are still standing 48% men and 52% women. Vula mehlo. Tong’ola maso, n’wugule meso jula jiso!

  23. Vuto lokhala kwawo kwa mkazi ndi limeneli,Ukamakhala pa nyumba ya mkazi amapanga matama heavy. Tengani mkaziyo mukakhale naye kwanu

    • Braz it doesn’t matter kuti mkaziyo ulinaye mbali iti zimangotengera mtima wake wa mkazi yemwe ulinaye coz olo kwanu komweko atha kumakuseweraso ma game oopsya hvy!!!!!!

  24. Hummmmmm! Dats too bad! He could’ve jst accepted de situation,devorve de woman & move on with his life.De world is full of lust these days so it could’ve been much better for him to jst accept de inevitable rather dat to loose two things at once,his wife & his life too. I pity him.Azimayi nanu inuuuu! Behave well mukumatiphetsa.